Woman Improves Relationship With Her Mother Using The Secret


All of my life, some forty-odd years, I have never felt connected with my mother. As a teenager we had many serious arguments and as I got older I just never felt I was close to her. At various points in my life I have even abstained from communicating with her.

Basically my relationship with my mother was a mess. Mum is now 80-something and has been losing her eyesight. I strongly felt I needed to fix our strained relationship.

After reading The Secret, I was writing some things about gratitude. I looked at my ‘bad’ relationship with my mother and decided to write down all the things I was grateful for; the lovely dresses she sewed me when I was a young girl, the great vegetables she grew for us all, the way she always kept our huge garden so nice, etc. I just recognized all these things and felt this huge surge of gratitude for all her hard work and caring over the years.

I wrote in my notebook about two months ago “I want a happy, calm and trusting relationship with mum”. After writing it I actually didn’t think much more about it. Life went on though I did feel a new sense of peace about mum.

Mother Love With The Secret


After that I decided I would go and visit my mother. I had not spoken to her for about one year. When I saw her everything between us had changed. There was no tension, no holding back. I told her about some things that happened in my life which had been difficult and she offered me hugs, love and support (mum never gave hugs previously). Never in my life had I felt this type of mother-love. It was truly a special moment in my life.

I phone mum every week now and we chat away in a very intimate way. She’s told me all about her relationship with my dad which has been wonderful to learn about. We talk to each like I always wanted to be able to talk. She calmly offers me suggestions that may help me, just like I always wanted, motherly advice I guess it is called. There is just this love between us which I cannot describe in words. Wow!

This is totally because of The Secret. I now have this happy, calm and trusting relationship with my mother. There is such a strong feeling of peace between us. I have wanted this all my life. I feel a deep connection to my mother! I am so grateful for The Secret. This is very powerful stuff. Thank you so much!

About Glenda from New Zealand:

Using The Secret is changing many areas of my life!

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