If you want to end laziness and break the bad habits, this video is a must watch for you.
Act Like A Success – Motivational Video For Success & Studying (Destroy Bad Habits)
Speakers:
Eric Thomas,
Tom Bilyeu,
Mel Robbins,
Tim Grover,
Jocko Willink,
Steve Harvey,
Jarret Adams,
Tony Robbins,
Brian Tracy,
Jack Canfield,
Bob Proctor,
Julien Himself,
Tony Robbins,
Jim Rohn,
Robert Herjavec,
Bryan Tracy,
Warren Buffet,
Steve Covey,
Joe Rogan,
Robin Sharma.
Transcripts of the Video:
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I don’t go to sleep when I’m tired, I go to sleep when I’m done.
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Some of you sitting here, you stopped not because you don’t have a gift,
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you stopped cause your mindset is off.
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But if you’re not willing to pay the price to get it, you will never.
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That’s the truth, that’s the hard reality of the human condition.
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You have to give blood, sweat, and tears to force your body and your mind to change.
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And Oh my God! People understand the physical transformation.
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But people do not understand a mental transformation.
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Because it’s invisible.
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What’s the first decision you made this morning?
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I bet it was to go back to bed.
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The reason why I’m bringing up this first decision that you made today and the inner snooze alarm,
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is because in any area of your life that you wanna change, any,
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there’s one fact that you need to know.
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You’re never gonna feel like it.
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How you get what you want?
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It’s very, very simple to get what you want.
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But it’s not easy.
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You have to force yourself.
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Discipline is the pathway to freedom.
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Discipline in and out itself doesn’t take from you.
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Discipline gives.
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Discipline tells you what to say yes to and what not to.
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It actually lightens your load.
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Is that thing that makes you, you.
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Is that things that gives you the energy.
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To improve.
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To push yourself.
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To get better.
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To be willing to fight trough.
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Good enough.
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But it starts with you.
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It starts with being willing to change the things in your life.
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What do you want?
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Do you wanna lose weight?
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Do you wanna triple your income?
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Do you wanna start a non-profit?
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Do you wanna find love?
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What is it?
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Anything that’s a break from your routine,
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is gonna require force.
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The pain and suffering, that is the process of growing and getting better.
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Here’s the thing.
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Humans are capable of change.
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Extraordinary change.
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Transformation.
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To go from one thing to something else that is truly unrecognizable.
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To think of the person you are today.
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As being a weight lift point.
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To the person that you can become.
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And over there, on the other side of that transformation,
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is somebody so much more powerful and greater than who you are today.
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But, you’ve gotta answer.
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How badly you want it?
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The first step is getting completely and brutally honest enough to say
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“I am tired of myself!”
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When you say “I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired”,
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that’s the facilitator of change.
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That’s when you’re ready to say these words.
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“No more excuses.”
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No more excuses.
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Why don’t you have what you want?
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When you have all the information that you need,
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you have the contacts that you need.
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There are probably free tools online that allow you to start a business or join a group.
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Or do whatever the heck you want.
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It’s the routine that’s killing you.
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Everybody is gonna get the same information.
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Everybody is gonna get the same time.
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Everybody’s gonna get the same speakers.
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Everybody’s gonna get the exact same thing.
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Everybody is gonna have access to the exact same thing.
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The problem is,
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everybody wants to be a beast until is time to do what a real beast do.
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Everybody gets excited.
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ET, the guru story.
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But nobody wants to get up at 3 o’clock.
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Everybody is excited when I say:
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I wake up at 3 o’ clock as a beast, 3 o’ clock.
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And then you try it twice and fail.
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And for real, you walk out of here pumped up, fired up,
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you get some new information, you’re ready.
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Everybody wants to be a beast until is time to do what beasts do.
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And what you have to understand here is,
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everybody that you’re gonna hear from,
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“my mother got pregnant with me at 17 years old”
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“highschool dropout”
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“ate out of trash cans”
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“live in abandoned buildings”
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“flipping cards”
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“multi-million company”
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That’s changed in the world.
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I didn’t say America, the Worldwide.
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Because not only do I wanna be a beast.
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If you follow my 24 hours, I do what beasts do.
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I think the good and great are only separated by a willingness to sacrifice.
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And what are you willing to sacrifice?
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Have you thought about it?
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Have you actually asked yourself that question and you’ve written down an answer?
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No matter what anybody thinks.
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No matter how much hatred is slung in you.
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If you have a vision of yourself and what you can become,
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and you are willing to sacrifice to get there,
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and you are willing to suffer and endure,
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all that matters is whether or not you actually get great at something.
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And if you get great at something,
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no matter who tries to stop you my friends,
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booze can’t block dunks.
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Everything in your life happens for a reason.
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Your responsibility is to look at these things in your life
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and ask this question: “Why now?”
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You need activation energy to start the change.
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To start to sit down.
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To start to get out the bed.
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To start to walk out the door.
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That’s the key to creating any kind of change.
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This activation energy inside of you that causes the initial “Go!”.
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And then, what do we hear over time?
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Once you start there’s a chain reaction and that allows you to keep going.
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You have to act on your passion.
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You have to act on your inner drive.
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Don’t let those feelings stay inside of you.
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You gotta know what to do with them.
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You gotta know how to make them work in order to get what you want.
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Don’t keep it inside.
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You wanna improve?
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You want to get better?
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You wanna get on a workout program or a clean diet?
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You wanna start a business?
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Where do you start?
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You start right here.
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And when you start? You start right now!
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Everybody, at one point and time in your life,
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to be successful you have to jump.
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Jumping is the hardest thing for people to do.
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But you have to jump.
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If you never jump, you’ll never be successful.
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When you first jump, I guarantee you the parachute ain’t gonna open.
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I promise you that.
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But guess what?
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Eventually, it does open.
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And then you start your glide.
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But it starts with the jump.
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You have to jump, man.
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No matter how painful it is, I gotta keep going.
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And I gotta keep going because what is my passion?
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What is my focus?
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Your focus and your passion will numb you.
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To failure and to pain.
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Or striving to get to where you’re trying to go.
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I don’t accept that I am what I am and that “that” is what I’m doomed to be.
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No!
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I don’t accept that.
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I’m fighting.
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I’m always fighting.
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I’m struggling and I’m scrapping.
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And kicking and clawing it in those weaknesses.
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To change them.
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To stop them.
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Some days I win.
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Some days I don’t.
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But each and every day, I get back up.
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And I move forward.
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With my fists clenched toward the battle.
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Toward the struggle.
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And I fight with everything I’ve got to overcome those weaknesses.
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And those shortfalls.
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And those flaws.
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So literally without goals, you’re directionless.
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You will be used.
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And people without goals get used by other people who have them.
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People who don’t have goals work for people who do.
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And so you wanna be someone who picks up and gets clear about what you want.
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Make a list.
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101 goals.
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I want to go to Paris.
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I want to skydive.
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I want to bungee cord jump.
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I want to play the guitar.
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I wanna learn to juggle.
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I want to learn two magic tricks for the kids.
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I wanna go to Olympics in Beijing.
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Whatever it is, make the list.
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You have to delete all the negativity in the world and focus on things that make you feel great.
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So you could focus on a relationship you have.
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You could focus on how much you’ve already learned in the last six or seven or eight days.
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You could focus on the people that love you.
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You could focus on your ability as a human being to change your life at any moment and time.
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You have to be crazy in believing what your goal and your passion is.
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Because when something is crazy, even tho is crazy, you still do it right?
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Every single person is designed from infancy with special talents and abilities
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that if you develop them to their height, can enable you to accomplish anything you want in life.
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Everyone is genetically structured to be able to do something superbly.
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To do something they enjoy.
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To do it well.
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And to get great satisfaction from it.
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There’s no capability difference between you and someone you consider to be an ultimate role model of success.
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The only difference is they learned to use their mind and body with more power on a consistent basis.
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They’ve learned to manage their state.
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They’ve learned to use their body effectively.
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Whether they know it or not consciously, doesn’t matter.
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A lot of people do things without being aware of how they do it.
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And they’ve learned to control their mental focus.
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Remember, whatever we concentrate our focus on consistenly and strive to learn from,
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and make new distinctions about it, we will get great at.
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I want to reassure you that you can do it.
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I want you to reassure you that you can make the decisions.
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I want to reassure you that no matter what the night, no matter what the storm,
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no matter what the difficulty,
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there isn’t anybody here that can’t figure it out, find some things to do, one step at a time.
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Yes.
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Minute at a time?
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Yes!
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A day at a time?
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Yes!
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A week at a time?
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Yes!
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But there isn’t anything you can’t walk away from.
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There isn’t any challenge you can’t overcome.
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I want you to have that kind of belief in yourself.
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You’ve gotta believe in yourself.
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You just have to.
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And then you do it.
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You see it. You believe it. And then you do it.
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As Ernest Hemingway noted, the world breaks everyone.
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And afterward, many are stronger in the broken places.
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But my question is,
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“Why isn’t everyone?”
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To me, it comes down to the strategies that you use.
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There really isn’t anything objectively good or bad.
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There isn’t anything that happens to you that can’t be overcome.
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There isn’t anything.
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That could happen to you.
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Anything.
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That when you turn inward you can’t find a reason to overcome,
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you can’t find a way to put those pieces back together.
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And that becomes your job.
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It becomes literally up to you.
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Whether you’re going to sit and wallow as me.
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Because what happen, happen.
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And there’s no way to take it back.
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But how you respond,
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what you bring to that table,
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whether you meet fire with fire,
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whether you meet that adversity with falling apart,
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becoming weaker in the areas that broke,
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or you bind them and mend them and it becomes like a well that literally makes you stronger.
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Is a choice.
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And it’s a choice only you get to make.
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But as Stephen Hawking said,
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When you complain, nobody wants to help you.
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There are many things in your life that you have every reason to complain about.
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You have every reason to be upset by the things that have happened to you.
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The most sinister thing about excuses is they’re valid.
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There are a million reasons why you should be able to give up.
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There’s a million reasons why you shouldn’t need to try that thing that broke you.
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You should be allowed to just sit on the ground.
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And here’s the thing.
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That’s your right.
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You have every reason to do it.
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And maybe people won’t even think less of you.
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But here’s the truth.
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They become weaker and stronger in places that broke, and that’s a choice of how you react moving forward.
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The great news is, the best thing that you can do to become stronger is love yourself.
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And as Kamal Ravikant said,
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Loving yourself is a practice.
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People think that is something that’s gonna feel right.
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That is gonna feel natural.
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That you’re just gonna turn inward and there it is the spark of love and joy.
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For yourself, inside yourself.
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But the truth is, that’s just not the human experience.
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That’s not the way that it works.
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It’s gonna be a voice inside your head and it’s going to blame you.
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It’s gonna say that is your fault.
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And no matter how many times people on the outside tell you that, that is not true.
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That this thing happened to you that it isn’t you, it doesn’t define you.
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There will be a voice that is going to tell you that it does.
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And that’s where you have to fall back on process.
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That’s where you have to realize that you literally have to practice loving yourself.
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And that is okay.
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That no matter what happen, there is absolutely nothing that invalidates that you’re worthy of your own love.
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But you’ve gotta practice it.
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You’ve gotta be willing to do it.
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You’ve gotta be willing to put in the reps.
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You’ve gotta know that is not gonna feel right.
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But you’ve got to know on the other side of that is a vision of your life.
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Where you actually do love yourself.
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Because you took the time to say it.
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You took the time to practice it.
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You took the time to sit there and feel stupid
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And say that you love yourself.
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And sometimes just putting in the work is what you need to do to get strong.
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So put in the work.
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Realize that’s your life situation here today.
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Okay?
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So the results are basically determined by all of your happens.
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And if you want more, if you want something different,
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You can’t let these things form on their own.
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So what I want you to do right now is look at your life.
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Look at your life situation.
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Look at where the f*** you’re at.
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And ask yourself very honestly, very bluntly,
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How did you get here?
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What are all the little events, all the little decisions, all the little factors?
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What accumulation of that got you to this point here?
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If you keep up your present disciplines and keep up the present pace that you’re on,
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where will you be in five years?
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Now you can keep on the same path for the next couple of years as you have in the past too.
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But if you wish to, if you wish to.
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And maybe everything is okay for you and you won’t need to.
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But if you need to make some changes, I’m telling you, you can start doing it today,
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so that the next 2 years will be drastically different than the last 2.
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Every single successful person that I know,
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has these habits of extremely practice.
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No one just drifts to the top out of luck.
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Um, tell my about, what was your secret?
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How did you become a self-made multi multi-millionaire?
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You know, how did all happen?
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You know, it’s funny, everybody wants a shortcut.
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That’s the most common question people ask me.
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Tell me the key.
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And, there is no magic.
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It’s just a lot of little things you gotta do every day.
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Success is all those boring sexy things that have to get done.
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Every single day to move the ball forward.
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There’s gonna be bad days. There’s gonna be dark days.
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But you gotta embrace it.
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Because that pain is what makes you stronger.
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And success is not measured on the days when the sun shines.
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Success is measured on the dark, stormy, cloudy days.
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And if you can’t absorb failure, you’re never gonna meet success.
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Most people don’t know why they’re where they are.
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You see, I am telling you one thing.
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Everyone knows how to do a better job than their doing.
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That’s not the problem.
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We do know how.
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The problem is we’re not doing what we know how to do.
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People think:
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“Oh, you’re living this disciplined lifestyle so that means you don’t have any freedom.”
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And it’s actually the exact opposite.
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I have freedom because I have discipline.
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I have, you know, financial freedom because I have financial discipline.
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I have more time, I have more time.
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Because I have the discipline to get up in the morning before most normal people get up.
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Almost everything you do from the time you get up in the morning is habit.
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So start to think about yourself, what would be the best habits to have?
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Develop the habits.
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You got the brain coverage.
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You got the energy.
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But develop a habit of success.
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And then look around you at the people that you admire
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and list what makes you admire them compared to somebody else that looks equally strong or equally talented.
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And, those are things that you can do.
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I mean, just write them down.
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As we all know, real growth and development cannot take place overnight.
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You must pay the price over an extended period of time to reap the benefits of these habits.
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So I encourage you to make the investment.
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Put forward the time and effort
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Focus on the kinds of changes you can make
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consistently and over time to develop these habits.
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Well I think the one thing that discipline definitely does help you with,
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is it helps you get things done.
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And when you get things done, when you actually do things,
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you have more success.
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If you have more success,
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and sometimes a big part of success is just not being f***ing lazy and just doing it,
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It’s like 90% of this is just showing up.
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Get there and start working.
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Like, you’re not gonna feel perfect every day.
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The pro goes to work.
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And it doesn’t matter if you’re sick,
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it doesn’t matter if you have kids,
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it doesn’t matter what.
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You’re a pro and you go to work.
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You will receive from the world who you become.
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For the doorway to success, I suggest you swings inward and not outward.
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And the best way to have a game-changing life and the best way to have a world-class lifestyle,
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and the best way to change the world,
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is to change yourself.
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I mean, we got from life who we become.
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So, you wanna get better?
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You wanna self-improve?
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Stop looking for a shortcut.
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And go find your alarm clock.
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Find your discipline.
