In this video Aileen explains that the law of attraction is about using the power of your thoughts to manifest your desires, realize your dreams & get anything you want! It’s not just about wishful thinking. All realities begin in the mind: your beliefs become thoughts, thoughts become words, words become actions, and actions become reality. As you take action towards your dream, the universe will conspire to help you achieve it.
Think back at all those serendipitous opportunities that have come into your life: people you’ve met, “right place right time” moments or chance encounters that have led to where you are today. Those moments are the universe working with you to bring your dreams into reality. Amazing, isn’t it?
Law of Attraction: How to Get Anything You Want
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hi everyone welcome back to Lavandaire
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I’m Aileen for those of you just
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dropping in today I want to talk about
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the law of attraction and how you can
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use this tool to manifest your dreams
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your desires and get anything you want
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so for those of you who haven’t heard
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the law of attraction is basically this
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idea that our universe operates under
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this law that like attracts like
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meaning whatever energy or thoughts you
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put out you’re going to attract that in
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return so you can think about this on a
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surface level kind of like if you send
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out good vibes and you’re going to
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receive good vibes if you’re kind to
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others and others will be kind to you or
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on the flip side if you lie to others if
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you hurt others then others will do that
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same thing back to you basically
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whatever you put out you’re going to
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attract that same thing in return so
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it’s pretty crazy just thinking about it
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because it just means that you have so
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much power so much control over how you
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shape your reality so the general idea
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here is all change begins with your
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beliefs and your thoughts and so that’s
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like the origin the starting point for
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sending out the message to the universe
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of what you want and through a lot of
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attraction you can actually attract all
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the things that you want into your
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reality now at this point if this is the
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first time you’re hearing about the law
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of attraction you might be pretty
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skeptical because you’re like what the
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heck how does that work if you just like
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think something it becomes reality like
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life is not that easy your dreams don’t
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come that easy and you’re right it’s
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true it’s not that easy it doesn’t work
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just like that it’s not just wishful
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thinking Law of Attraction doesn’t mean
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like you just think like oh I want to be
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rich and when I have a big house and a
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nice car and boom you get all of that
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stuff that’s not how it works there’s
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like all these steps that happen in
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between but what the point I’m trying to
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make is that everything all of reality
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begins here it begins with your beliefs
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it begins with your thoughts there’s not
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a dream that you’ve achieved that hasn’t
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happened here first meaning you have to
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think about what you want before you
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actually get
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you have to imagine it envision it and
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know what you want and then obviously
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you have to like take action and do
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those little steps to get you there so
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if you’re more of a pragmatic or
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practical person this is how I would
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explain how the law of attraction
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actually works so everything begins with
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your beliefs okay so your beliefs shape
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your thoughts your thoughts shape your
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words your words shape your actions and
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your actions shape your reality so
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everything begins with the belief when
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you have a belief or a thought about
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something that’s like boom you sending
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out a message into the world into the
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universe and the universe will start to
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attract those things back to you but as
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you focus on those beliefs in those
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thoughts you start to see those
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transform into words whether you’re
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writing down your goal or you’re writing
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to yourself in your journal or just the
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words that you used to talk to your
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friends and family to describe yourself
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how you’re feeling so your words are
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really powerful your words will become
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your actions because you have to decide
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what to do before you do it so once you
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start taking action obviously we all
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know that action makes things happen so
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boom eventually your reality matches
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what you originally believed or thought
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up in your mind so that is like just a
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quick way to explain how you can
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transform your dreams into a reality and
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obviously there’s a practical part where
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you’re actually putting in the work but
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the law of attraction also says that
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while you’re taking action towards your
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goals while you’re focusing on your
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dreams and whatever you want to manifest
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the universe will conspire to help you
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achieve it so that’s like the magical
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spiritual part that you don’t have to
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believe in but I believe in it because
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why not believe that the universe has
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your back
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you know the universe will support you
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in whatever you want to do all you have
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to do is put out that thought and really
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focus on that thought and do the little
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actions that it takes to take yourself
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towards that goal whatever it is so
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moving on here are my tips on how to use
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the law of attraction to manifest
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dreams and get what you want the first
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tip is be aware of your beliefs so like
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I said everything begins with your
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beliefs so ask yourself maybe use this
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as a journaling prompts what you believe
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to be true about yourself and your life
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so write down you know certain things
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that you believe about yourself and then
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go down your list and ask yourself are
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these things that you actually want to
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attract more of or are these negative
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beliefs are these limiting beliefs
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because sometimes we believe things that
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don’t really help us in our lives and we
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believe in things that hold us back so
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it’s really important to uncover what
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those beliefs are and start from there
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examples of limiting beliefs might be
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like it’s so hard to make money or it’s
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so hard to finish school or it’s so hard
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to date you know if you have these
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beliefs in your system in your mindset
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then you’re going to attract the same
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reality to you so instead you have to
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pinpoint that belief and then switch it
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replace it with a more positive one it’s
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so easy to make money money comes easily
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to me
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it’s so easy to find a soulmate you know
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think of ways you can flip your negative
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beliefs into positive ones and start
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attracting more of what you want so a
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huge huge thing that I have to note
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about the law of attraction is that you
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have to focus on exactly the thing that
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you want more of exactly the thing you
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want to attract so don’t use sentences
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that have a negative for example when
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you’re running late you can’t be
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thinking like oh I don’t want to be late
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I don’t want to be late because that
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sentence I don’t want to be late late is
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the subject you’re still focusing on the
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word late so the universe doesn’t read
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the I don’t want to be part it just
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reads as late so if you keep thinking I
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don’t want to be late I don’t want to be
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late
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you’re going to be late so instead you
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have to slip it into a positive and
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instead keep repeating a phrase kind of
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like oh I’m an early bird I’m going to
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be early I’m always early focus on the
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subject so you notice the second
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examples like I’m always early the
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subject of that phrase is early that’s
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the word that you
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focus on this is how important it is to
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be detailed and very meticulous with
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your words because your words have power
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even if you’re not trying to manifest
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something if you even think of the word
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or say the word you might be you know
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attracting that to you another tool to
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help you attract more of what you want
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into your life is gratitude gratitude is
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the key to bringing more abundance into
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your life because the more that you’re
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grateful for what you have in your life
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already the more things you’re going to
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find to be grateful for
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so gratitude is like putting out
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positive good vibes into the universe
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and attracting even more of that back to
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you so if you notice if you’re generous
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with other people you’re going to
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receive more abundance and generosity in
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return so it’s always always good to
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utilize these tools to put out gratitude
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and good vibes to attract the same thing
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back to your life another tool to bring
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more of what you want into your life is
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utilizing affirmation so an affirmation
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is a sentence that is like a power
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statement something that you want to
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embody something that you want to become
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your life’s and your reality so the most
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powerful thing about affirmations is
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that it is written and read in the
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present tense so whatever it is that you
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want in your life you can write it into
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a statement but make that statement like
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a present tense statement like I am
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blank or I have blank for example I
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personally like to read affirmations at
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night before I go to bed I just repeat
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them in my head last night I was
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repeating I am powerful I am guided I am
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protected the universe has my back so
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something like that I’ll repeat over and
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over and over in my head just so I can
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ingrain it into my beliefs so that that
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can trickle into my actions and my
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reality and also you know summer is
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coming up lately I’ve been getting more
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into fitness and health and one of my
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affirmations is I am beautiful lean with
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thin thighs and abs because I really
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want to manifest a more healthy and fit
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body so literally like I wrote that down
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on my whiteboard and I’ve been saying
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that phrase to myself on and on and on
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just to remind myself to eat healthier
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or
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the gym and just let that statement
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empower me to take the actions in my
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life to get myself there another thing
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you can do that’s really helpful is to
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start journaling your dreams and your
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desires as if you already have them
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so journal that in present tense
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whatever your dreams and your goals are
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write a journal entry in present tense
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like oh my god I just reach this goal
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and then explain how do you feel about
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it how what’s around you what’s happened
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in your life because of that just
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journal as if it’s real journal as if
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it’s happened because the more that you
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feel this goal is real the more you feel
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it into your reality the more you’re
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going to attract that reality to
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actually come sooner this is really
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powerful because when you’re journaling
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as if this thing is real you bring at
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your emotions into it and then you
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explore the detail if you kind of plan
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out all the details of that reality and
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once you know the details the more
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you’re going to be able to attract that
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thing to you the faster it’s going to
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happen another tool you can use to
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manifest your dreams is a vision board
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now I’ve already made previous videos on
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how to make a vision board which I’ll
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link here but a vision board is just a
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way to envision the dream life that you
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want the feelings and the visuals that
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you want because visuals are very
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powerful so the more that you can see it
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as a reality the more you’re going to
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attract that thing to you the next step
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that’s also really important to
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manifesting your dreams is to change
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your behavior to act as if your dream is
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already real so I already talked about
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journaling writing that journaling
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prompt as if you’ve already achieved
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your dreams now I’m talking about acting
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in your day-to-day life advocate dream
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is a reality for example when I was just
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starting out with my channel it was
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really small I wasn’t making any money
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off of it I would go out and meet people
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and they would ask me what do I do so in
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the beginning I would be really hesitant
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to tell them what I was working on I’d
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be like oh I’m just dabbling in some
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things but eventually I just started to
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own it I started to be more confident in
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it and just say I’m a youtuber I’m a
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full
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I’m content creator even when I wasn’t
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making that much money off of it I acted
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as if that was my full-time job and
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that’s what I did and the more that I
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stood firm and confident in that the
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more it became a reality where now
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that’s where I am another thing I do is
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I make decisions based on what my future
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ideal self would make so my future ideal
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self is a successful businesswoman and
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so she would be willing to spend money
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on resources or tools or things that
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will help her she would be able to spend
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money hiring people to help her run her
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business
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so even when now I’m in a very small
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part of my business and if I were to
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look at my current situation I’m like
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okay I can’t afford to spend money on
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this course or I can’t afford to hire
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someone right now but I try to make
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those bigger decisions to bring myself
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to that next level because I know that’s
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where I want to be so I make it the
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bigger decisions now if that makes sense
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so change your behavior to match what
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your ideal self would do and ask as if
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you’ve already achieved the goal that
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you want to achieve all right so the
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last tip on how to manifest your dreams
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is obviously take action action is such
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a huge part of this equation and I truly
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believe that once you take action the
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universe will take its action and it
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will conspire to help you achieve your
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goals the universe works with you so
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like I said life attracts like if you
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take action the universe is going to
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take action too so you want to work
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together the universe is your
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collaborator if you sit there and you
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just wait for things to happen the
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universe is also going to sit there and
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wait for things to happen which means
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nothing is going to happen so remember
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to always take action because we do live
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in a material real world where you have
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to do things to move forward and make
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things happen so I hope you like today’s
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tips on how to use the law of attraction
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to manifest your dreams and get what you
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want these tips are really just like the
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tip of the iceberg because I feel like
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the law of attraction is a huge topic
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that you can really really dive deep
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into so I might go into more videos in
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the future for now I’ll leave it at that
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I do want to share my inspiration lately
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on Law of Attraction it’s this YouTube
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channel called Leora Alexandra so I’ll
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link all of her videos below she has
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really great videos so yeah I do have a
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challenge for you today I want you to
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think about one thing that you want to
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manifest in your life whatever that one
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thing is I want you to write a comment
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as if that thing just happened it could
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be one sentence it could be a whole
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paragraph about your day and how great
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you feel that it happened whatever I
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just want to hear what it is that you’re
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manifesting okay thank you so much for
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watching love you all and see you next
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time bye
