This video will show you the 3 most powerful techniques for attracting love.
Aaron Doughty provides practical tips for aligning yourself to then attract the best person to resonate with.
3 Techniques to Attract Love using the Law of Attraction
Transcripts of the Video:
“Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video I’m going to be sharing with you three techniques for attracting love using the law of attraction. Now I believe that this video can be the missing link for so many people understanding that the process is more about how we embody the feeling of love so that that transmits to other people and then we’re more likely to attract it. I’m going to give you tools in order to do that, going to give you practical understanding that you can actually apply to make it something that is real for you.”
“The first part of it and the number one technique I have is to understand how to embody self-love and how that transmits to other people. Now the idea behind this is something that science is starting to prove as well, it is something that is called mirror neurons. Which means that when we go out to other people, the way that we think is literally being entrained with other people and they can feel how you feel about yourself. They can, in a way, pick up on that, so the idea is that however you feel is going to be how people feel about you. It’s going to be something that’s projected out to other people.”
“Now the idea is that as I say in almost all my videos, we don’t necessarily attract that which we want, but we always get a reflection of who we are being. What this means is that part of who we are being is not only the action we take, the self-image we have, but it’s also the emotions that we are feeling. What we must learn to do is to embody the emotion of feeling love for who we are and knowing that we are already 100 percent whole and complete. Now the technique and the way that I want to share this with you has to do with understanding the RAS, or the reticular activating system in our brain, which is a fancy word for our selective focus.”
“The more we’re focused on the positive aspects of ourselves, the more we’re focused on things that we’re grateful for, maybe personality traits that we’re thankful for, the more that we begin to feel that about ourselves and the more that’s translated to other people. The idea is that a lot of times we’re focused on the weaknesses we have and what that causes is negative emotion, that causes resistance and that causes us to detract from the people that we actually want to attract. The simple way to do this is to every day sit down for five or ten minutes and focus on what you’re grateful for in your life, focus on your strengths and what you’re good at.”
“I think the word confidence actually breaks down to mean trust. Trust in yourself, trust and know that the more you focus on your strengths, the more that you buy into who you are and the more that other people will feel that off of you and then they’ll buy into you as well. The idea is to simply feel that emotion by tailoring your focus and focusing on what you’re grateful for. All of us have insecurities and when you have insecurities what you can do is you can re-frame it, you can start to look at it as a positive light.”
“Like if you’re talking about freckles, if you’re talking about anything at all, look at it and realize that you are already whole and complete, that it makes you unique for who you are and then you start to move onto things you can actually focus in a positive way on. Now the second one I have for you is also a very powerful way to let go of the beliefs you have around relationships and who you attract. Understand that more important than just the law of attraction is also understanding that our beliefs and our definitions are creating our life experiences.”
“If we believe that we only attract a certain type of girl, if we believe we only attract a guy that treats us a certain way, the idea is that what is happening is that belief, that definition is continuing to perpetuate the same cycle. In a way we’re getting a skewed sample. It’s almost like we’re meeting those people and we’re seeing them because that’s reaffirming that belief that we have. The idea is to simply write down on a piece of paper what those beliefs are and then as you look at them, realize that they are no longer what you prefer to experience.”
“They are no longer the conditioned thinking that you prefer to stay perpetuated within. What you then do is you take yourself out of the conditioned thinking and you start to intend for what you want. Get specific for the kind of character traits that you want in your significant other, get specific with the kind of person that you think you deserve and as you do this, you’re shifting it from the pattern of what you’ve…”