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Emotional Intelligence: Using the Laws of Attraction | D. Ivan Young

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good to be here and I want to first
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acknowledge these students because this
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is not easy when you’re a student is not
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even easy when you’re a professional so
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can we give these guys a hand thank you
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I’m here to talk to you about two things
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that you would think just do not go
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together those two things are emotional
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intelligence and the laws of attraction
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ow I was talking to dr. Thomas the other
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day when I came for the rehearsal he say
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well doc emotional intelligence isn’t
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that being aware and having clarity
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about your feelings in the feelings of
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other people when you’re in the midst of
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a set of circumstances or a situation
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with them and I say yeah that is
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definitely a definition for that and a
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very accurate definition for that but
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the truth about emotional intelligence
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goes far beyond having just clarity
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about people its clarity about
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situations circumstances why are you
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there when you stop and think about I’m
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in this situation I’m in the midst of
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something now what is that something and
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more than likely that something is a set
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of circumstances or a dilemma you may
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even encountered that you attracted into
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your life and that’s where the laws of
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attraction come to me emotional
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intelligence like attracts like these
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things that you expect come to you what
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we believe is that if we say some
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affirmations if we take a moment and
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visualize something do a vision board or
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something of that nature that’s what’s
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going to happen but not true as a matter
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of fact if I say right now do not think
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of a chimpanzee wearing a red tie and a
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blue and white pinstripe suit whatever
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you do do not picture this chimpanzee
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wearing this red bow tie and this blue
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pinstripe suit what do you keep thinking
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of the very thing that I told you don’t
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think about because that is where you
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are putting your
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a motion that energy plus motion and the
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more emotion you pour into anything the
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more of that thing you receive in other
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words you can say one thing and do
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another and as we well know many of us
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typically say all the right things but
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do we do them if you don’t believe me go

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to somebody’s house and look at all the
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dusty workout equipment look at all the
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diets that they tried go to a gym and
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look at the people that signed up that
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are no longer coming because what we
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have done is we’ve taken the laws of
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attraction and Mis applied them we don’t
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take serious the things that we feel we
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deserve enough in order for them to
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manifest into our lives and how do you
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stop that
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real simple monitor what you feel what
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you constantly think about that is
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exactly what you get if you keep
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thinking I’m my Luckies never everybody
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gets it with me I’ll never have that
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I’ll never live in that house you know
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that’s for them whoever them are those
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people are when you constantly think
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about how much bills are what do you end
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up with more pink slips more bills when
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you constantly think about I don’t want
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to gain any more weight or I don’t I
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need to lose you know lose some of these
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bad habits that I have I want to stop
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smoking I’m not going to smoke what do
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you do the minute the pressure hits you
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go get a cigarette and you smoke again
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you get frustrated and you eat again and
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as you continue to do these things your
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thoughts and your feelings equal the
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manifestations that you get in your life
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here’s the million dollar solution to
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that first monitor what you think about
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your mind and and you know there’s a lot
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of theories around this concept but I
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want to tell you this everything that is
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seen comes from that which was not seen
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that chair you’re sitting in
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the clothes you have on right now with
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somebody’s I did one time somebody
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figured I don’t know a long time ago
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guys should wear a tie
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you know we figured somehow that you
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know going on horses what enough maybe
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if I can build this contraption I could
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fly like a bird everything that we do
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started out in the unseen and someone
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call those things that are not as though
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they are and brought them into
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manifestation but here’s the catch for
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you and the solution you must understand
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that conscious thinking is not your
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solution conscious thinking is typically
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reacting to some set of circumstances
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it’s typically paying attention to that
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which is before you that subconscious
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thinking you will associate that with
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stuff like have you ever driven home
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from work and you don’t even remember
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driving home because something was just
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on your mind or you automatically get in
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the car and you just check for something
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without even paying attention to what
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you’re doing your subconscious mind is
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the part of you that drives the outcomes
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in your life as you learn to master
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being sensitive to circumstances paying
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particular attention to the nuance
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achill things as we call it the little
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things if you stop worrying about what
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happened in the past and feeling guilty
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or I have being anxious about what may
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or may not happen in the future and
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operate and right now you will train
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your subconscious mind to begin
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manifesting the things that you truly
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desire and a short way of putting this
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is everything in your life happens for a
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reason your responsibility is to look at
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these things in your life and ask this
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question why now why is this person
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getting on my last nerve well they’re
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probably getting on your nerves because
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there’s some part of your character that
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is being reflected back to you through
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them that you need to work on we get
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frustrated and angered
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and almost just discombobulated by that
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which we do not understand you have to
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be willing to take the time in every
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moment every situation in your life and
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examine it for its meaning you have to
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examine it for its purpose you have to
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examine it to see what is this supposed
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to teach me right now in my practice
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something that I constantly tell people
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that I’m either speaking to in lectures
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like this or even in my office is to
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stop being so reactive and become
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proactive don’t wait to talk truly
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listen don’t just see things look at
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them you know when you hear something
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you’re perceiving it at the expense of
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all the white noise or the debris that
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surrounds it when you look at something
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you are deliberately ignoring things
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that otherwise could distract you it
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takes effort to be successful but the
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greatest effort is mastering how do you
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use your mind as we evolved and I’m not
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getting into some religious stuff so
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there will be no offering you don’t have
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to panic but we came from somewhere we
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received of a greater source and
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conceived when our parents decided to
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confirm that but my belief is before we
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get here we made a decision
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while we were coming and we came to
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experience the contrast and the
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challenge that everyday life presents to
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us see your Creator which you are a co
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participant in that creation is smarter
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than you think as a matter of fact you
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can figure out exactly what everything
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means in your life by asking one
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question one word why and it’s okay you
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know even in dating ladies it’s good to
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look at a guy say well why are you here
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what is it that you are supposed to
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teach me and not thinking he will
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probably tell you the truth the same
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thing is true of
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of the things that you’re trying to
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court in your day-to-day life in your
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career ask yourself why am I doing this
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what is motivating me to do this why do
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I feel the way that I feel about what
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I’m doing and you know you do not have
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to wait for an answer you can get an
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answer if you shut everything down get
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in a quiet space and simply meditate and
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I don’t mean lotus position going on
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what I do mean is taking the time to be
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quiet
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to be still to allow your circumstances
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to speak to you in such a way that it
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resonates at the core you remember I
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said emotion it’s kind of like that
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Geiger counter when you you’re looking
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around for a metal object and the
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further away you get the farther away
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the chirps get but the closer you get
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the closer those chirps get and the way
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that you can parallel that to your
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spirit speaking to you is the better you
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feel about it the more you should do it
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and if it doesn’t make sense to anyone
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but you all the better
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except the facts but never ever confuse
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the facts with the truth seek the
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greater truth you know anything that
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anyone has ever done that has required
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more cause that individual to confront
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themselves they confronted their fears
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they confronted other people they
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confronted culture and had to make a
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decision that you know what you said I
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can’t the system says I can’t but
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something inside me says what I can and
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when you seek the greater truth you get
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into direct alignment for that very
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moment that very reason that purpose
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that causes your emotional intelligence
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and the laws of attraction to become one
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as they become one you will find this
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sense of passion resonating causing and
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stirring up something inside of you as
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that passion is stirred up your purpose
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then begun just
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comes forth you know there’s this thing
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if you ever watch a football game you
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don’t see the guy sit there and wait on
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the ball to come and you don’t see the
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quarterback through it after the guys
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downfield right when he snaps the ball
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and that receiver takes off that ball is
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in there sometimes you have to run on
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faith you have to run not seeing the
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outcome but just knowing that there will
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be the result that you desire and as you
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feel as you believe you will receive
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because after all that which you seek
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ladies and gentlemen that which you
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desire that which you long for is
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equally seeking you have a great day
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you